I had a good day....spent some time with my homegirls....attempted to get lunch and an alcoholic beverage BUT Buffalo Wild Wings was on some bullshit. We discussed some things.....and alot of it boiled down to men (or shall we just say niggas because some of these muhfuggas have yet to reach true manhood?) and their pure FUCKERY. I mean is it me or have men just gotten entirely too damn lazy........maybe its due to these basic bitches, maybe they feel that because those broads allow certain shit in their lives that we sensible women...will? I mean I really don't know.....I am not the Proud Owner Of A Penis, I can't relate to that mind state. I am also not a man basher....I love men....and I know some good men that really handle their business with the upmost respect. Some things are just mind boggling. Example:
My homegirl gets a text....from a male. She doesn't know who he is at first, and he decides to introduce himself as MY friend.....mind you me and this dude have a history...nothing too serious though...like a fling that ended amicably. BUT I'm not sure as to why he would consider me his friend, we haven't kept touch in years.....the only thing I can think of is that he felt calling himself my friend would lead her to be okay with him. I mean...to each their own...I'm not a hater....I didn't plant a flag with my name on his ass.....BUT if you're going to try to use my "friendship" to get some pussy.....PLEASE actually attempt to be a friend. I wonder about his intentions....did he think maybe I would've bragged about our.....relations that would peak her interest? I mean....of course I talked to my girls about it, and I had nothing bad to say......BUT is that what other women do nowadays? Is passing the dick the new thing? I mean our fling was a looooooooooong time ago and honestly if she was feeling dude, I wouldn't mind at all. But she doesn't.....and not for any reason that has to do with me.
Whatever happened to courtship? Nowadays muhfuggas hit you with a text like "Want to chill?" "I got some bottles...." What happened to "I was wondering if you'd like to join me for dinner and possibly a movie?" . Is it because some females are getting too open over Facebook likes and Retweets? Now niggas try to harass you into talking to them....hacking into your social networking accounts and text messages, and shit. Chivalry is dead.....and I want to know who killed it. Everything is so easily accessible....we spill our wants and desires on timelines. You don't have to date someone to get to know them.....all you have to do is look up their updates.
Alot of times, dudes (and chicks as well) put up a front to be that ideal match. When really all we ask for is honesty. Most of time, we women, are not expecting you to have a squeeky clean background.....we all have our past....we've all made poor decisions...we all have regrets. What matters is if you've learned and grown from that. Someone once told me that shit.....is the best fertilizer. So people are so concerned with being THAT NIGGA or a BAD BITCH that they forget who they really are...their whole persona is built upon lies, deception, false pretenses...ect.ect.ect...in other words a bad foundation. Those do crack over time.
Nowadays it's all about instant gratification.....we want our food NOW....we want our money NOW...we want everything NOW...and we'll took the fastest route to getting what we want...without even considering it's affect especially on others..........
I'm so glad I'm not single.......I'd probably give up on dick and embrace celibacy or a really good vibrator.
Anyway....I'm going to try to post tomorrow for x-mas eve n'shit...... :) if i don't MERRY XMAS!!!!!
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